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Eulogy For Mum ( first posted on thebarefootfoodie on 23 Nov 2014 )

 

Eulogy for Mum

NOVEMBER 28, 2014BAREFOOT MEMORIALS

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Mummies are very special people. The children come in all shapes and sizes, big or small, warts and all. But here’s the secret – every mummy will think her baby is the best of all and love that child each and every day of her life.

My Mummy was a tiny lady with a chirpy voice and a big heart. She has always been a nurse and looked rather cute in her white uniform. She was know to many as ” Sister Leong” or “Mee-See”

My Mummy spent 20 years of her best life at the Cheshire Home. During this time, many of the residents also called her their mummy. She was selfless in her devotion and care to them, and they, in turn, loved her. In her gentle way, she left a mark on all who knew her, from the car mechanic to the handyman, right up to her nearest and dearest.

My Mummy had no mean bone in her body. She was kind and generous with her little treats and big treats. The two loves of her life were jackpot and mahjong. This seems to run in the family.  Although Ron and I did not make the cut, G more than made up for the both of us.

During these few days, I have been touched by the people who came to say their last goodbye. They spoke about the lovely person she was, in their different ways. Thank you for all your kind words – they meant a lot.

When I was in Primary One, I went to a Christian school. I accepted Jesus into my life. At that time, I was the only one in the family who did so. I held on stubbornly and tenaciously to God’s promise that I am not the only one going to heaven but that my entire household is coming along with me by and by.

God delivered on His promise 26 years later, when D, my son, was born. It was an incredible journey. My Dad became a believer and called D ” God’s Miracle Child”. Mummy also believed and was baptized in Ron’s church . I thank God for His faithfulness and His grace.

Mummy, you left us too soon and without even saying goodbye. My doctor friend calls it a medical mystery but I believe Jesus took you by the hand and gently led you into His bosom. You led a happy and beautiful life, and spread joy everywhere. It is so hard for me to say this, but you had a good death.

So goodbye for now, on this side of heaven, until I can say hello to you and Dad again someday.

I love you and miss you so very much.

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